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I hope you are all okay and if you aren’t feeling ok. Just remember that’s it ok not to be ok and I promise you can get the right support you need if you reach out to someone and if you want to talk please remember that I’m here and the correct charities are here to support you!
If you haven’t seen my recent blog post please check that out. ~ Bipolar & Hypersexuality🎆👀💦
Hello my loves, Hi, how are ya? No, how are you really?!
BP IS SHORTENED AS BIPOLAR!
Today post is about hypersexuality and talking about the positives out of a negative situation. As you all know I’m all about positives even if it’s out of a negative situation. I’m very positive about life and its journey, but I will speak about the negatives about hyper sexuality in a future blog post.
On this blog… It’s okay to talk about sex, it’s okay to talk about mental health and illnesses, it’s okay to talk about body positively and bedroom confidence and every single topic what is sadly stigmatised in today’s world.
Hyper sexuality can be a curse. Trust me, I’ve experienced the lows but also the highs of this symptom of BP. Some people who have BP can have decreased sex drives but others may experience a high sex drive and others may have a mixed like myself.
When I’m depressed, my sex drive disappears but when I am having a manic episode. It’s higher than the tallest building.
HYPER SEXUALITY IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR RAPE OR SEXUAL ASSAULT OR ABUSE!
ALWAYS ASK FOR CONSENT.
Consensual sex is the best sex here folks.
⬆️ Let’s clear that one up! ⬆️
Please make sure you are protected. Use condoms. Get protection like the implant or coil fitted. Or take the pill.
If you are a friend or have a partner with hypersexuality or with bipolar and they are showing signs of not being ok and they still want sex. For the love of god. Don’t proceed, make sure they are in a state to consent.
Just because we have hyper sexuality or bipolar, it doesn’t mean we can’t have consent. We deserve consent. We deserve the basic human right to say YES OR NO.
- We can talk openly about sex. It doesn’t bother us half of the times. It’s human nature after all.
- We know what we like and what we don’t like when it comes down to sex. (NO AWKWARD SILENCES HERE)
- We can make sex look like a porn movie. We have a lot of creativity in our minds due to our BP.
- We can make our sex lives MORE exciting.
- We know about kinks and sex toys.
- We don’t need porn when our minds are so creative .
- If you are in a relationship with someone with BP or hypersexuality. You won’t be bored on Valentine’s Day!
- We probably have a beautiful collection of sex toys.
If you are experiencing this or if you have bipolar or if you have any tips. Please, comment.
If you like this post, I’ll do another post about it in the future.
Till next time!
With lots of love!
Shannon Diana xx
Mental illness isn’t going to get the last laugh. I am.
I fight for my health and for other people’s health every single day in a way most people won’t understand, we aren’t lazy. We are warriors!
If you don’t feel like talking to yet, I’ll always be here and I’ll help out any way I can. You aren’t alone.
I know how it feels to be pushed aside. But listen, you are amazing and I’m proud of you so much.
Just so you know, it’s okay not to be okay you know, even the happiest person in the universe has their bad days. You can get through this dark hole. I believe in you.
You are loved. You are worth the fight. You are more than your illnesses, you can fight this I believe in you. You are flawless. You are fabulous. You aren’t alone. You are amazing and I’m proud of you all.
You can beat these thoughts. I believe in you. I will always be there for you even if it’s on the internet or email or even in person one day. You are loved. You are needed in this world because you are YOU. You are badass for battling mental illness daily. I care about every single one of you. You are more than enough. You don’t need to please anyone else.
Here is some numbers to contact if you are experiencing a mental health crisis:
Samaritans- For everyone! 24 hours, 7 days a week:
Call this number – 116 123
Email address is Jo@samaritans.org
Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) – For Men! 5pm to midnight every day.
Call this number: 0800 58 58 58
Webpage chat room if you don’t want to phone the link is: Webpage Chat
Papyrus- For people under 35! Monday to Friday 10am to 10pm. Weekends 2pm to 10pm. Bank Holidays 2pm to 5pm.
Phone number: 0800 068 41 41
Text Number: 07786 209697
Childline- For children and young people under 19.
Call 0800 1111 (Number won’t show up on your phone bill)
The Silver Line- For older people
Call: 0800 4 70 80 90
In the US: Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or the National Hopeline Network at 1-800-784-2433
In Austraila- Call Lifeline Austraila at 13 11 14
In other countries- Visit ISAP OR Suicide.org to find a helpline in your country.
Other places you could go or ring in a crisis in UK:
- Call your GP- Ask for an emergency appointment.
- Call 111 – Out of hours- They will help you find the support and help you need.
- Contact your mental health crisis team if you have one.
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